Don't trust the recorder unless you know it works!

Now let me explain what I mean by this topic. We all have friends that we trust with all of our secrets and we tell them everything. However what we don't ever think is that we would be betrayed by them. I've been guilty with this as well. I'm far from perfect and sometimes you just need to tell someone else what's going on. (at least tell someone that's not in the same circle as you. This way it won’t come back to bite you in the butt) so, hence the title I've chosen. Don't trust your friends with your business unless you know that you can trust them with your life. (I am going to be very honest in this post and it does contain some sexual details. If you don't want to know certain things about me, I ask that you please stop reading now...lol)

I've been on the receiving end of my business being brought back to me from someone who clearly shouldn't have known my business. I had a best friend who I trusted with all my dirty little secrets. I told her stuff about my sexual preference and also things that I've explored in my life sexually. Never did I think that she would tell my business to anyone especially her man. (Yes I said her man) What woman in their right mind would want to tell their man about the next woman sexual life. I was surprised when I got a call from him one day. Yes, he had my number because we had a mutual friend that we both knew. (And I'm not talking about my best friend I'm talking about a guy friend)

Anyway, one day I was sitting in my bed and the phone rang and I saw that my best friend’s boyfriend was calling me. I thought to myself something must have been wrong because he never called me any other time. To my surprise he told me that he wanted to ask me question but didn't want to offend me with the question he wanted to ask. (My mind was all over the place with what he could want to ask) I asked him what he meant by offend me and he said it was a sexual question. He said that he wanted to see if I could help him with a fantasy he had wanted to do with my best friend. I was still in shock to see why he felt I would be best person to answer his question. He told me that if he told me why he needed me not to repeat what he knew about me. Now as bad as that sound (because he didn't know me all that well) I was so curious to know what the hell he knew. He started off by telling me that she (remembers my best friend) told him something's about my sexual activities. I was in total disbelief and didn't think that he knew anything but was trying to get some info out of me. Boy was I wrong! He started to go into detail about things that I've done. I just listen and I asked him why she told him about it. He said she wanted to try a few things that I had done in the past. Again, in my mind this is no reason to tell you man about what your best friend can do. So, the one thing that she had wanted to try was to have do a three some (I'm not ashamed of my experiences and I will be honest without be to specific) She wanted it to be her, him and another chick. I asked him again what that had to do with me. He said that she had told him that I had experienced this before and he was curious to know if I could help. (Curious about what, huh) I immediately thought to myself this Bitch done lost her damn mind. I asked him how could I help him out with that and he said asked if I could find a woman that was willing to do it with them. I kindly explained to him that if she wanted to do that she would need to go out and find someone that was willing. My taste was my taste and she may not have been opened to the type of girl I liked at the time. (It was a onetime experience) I was fuming when he was talking about this but I played it cool because I wanted to know everything she had told him about me. Let’s just say she went into details about our mutual friend that I was talking to at the time.

Why would you tell your man anything pertaining to the next woman sexual life? Don't people know that it will only make that man curious about the next woman? I learned my lesson quick when it came to trusting people with my little secrets. We are still friends and I never mention the conversation that I had with her man. What was the point in telling her she would've went back to him and told him some other shit. So please be careful who you tell your business to. Your family, friends and partner can betray your trust.

My Journeys maybe long and trying but it has molded me into the person I am today! Until next time