Mixed Signals
Sometimes we tend to get our signals crossed. We can say one thing but it could something totally different. My question is if you are uncertain about what the another person is saying. Why not “Ask Questions”. People would rather not ask questions to only turn around and get mad at the other person's actions. Someone once told me that their not into the “wondering game”. You know wondering what you want to say or how you feel. I thought about it when it was said to me. My conclusion to this is if I say something or don’t say something and you feel you don’t have the time or don care either way. Why even bother at all! To wonder is to show concern because you care. To shut down and dismiss the person's feelings shows the opposite. I always say people will say or do very little and not realize they are saying a whole lot. I will say that I sometimes have a problem expressing myself. I may not say anything or I have said something and my actions showed differently. However, if