Jays Journey!

We all wish there was that somebody that we never met because we get hurt. However, we don't regret any of the good times but we always want to forget the bad. Life is just like a relationship, we can live with the blessings but don't want to go through the storm to get to them. No one saying that we should love being hurt I'm merely saying with love comes pain and with pain comes love. It's unfortunate but it's always a two for one package...smh. I know first hand what it feels like to be hurt and push it to the back burner and not deal with it. Then for some reason my relationships keep repeating itself and I find myself hurt, pushing it back, hurt again and pushing it back. However, I've learned that I had to get passed the hurt in order for me to open up and receive a different type of man. One who won't hurt me (hoping), love me unconditionally and doesn't have to try and fix the hurt I was feeling from the other men I've dated. It was time for

There is great power in the tongue. You can break, make, destroy and even kill someone with it. Although someone may have said or done something  wrong that has hurt you. Don't come back with the most hurtful thing you can say to make them feel like crap. It can be hard not to do that but as God said turn the other cheek, and What goes into a man's mouth does not make him 'unclean,' but what comes out of his mouth, that is what makes him 'unclean.' " (Matthew 15:11) your words are powerful. Use them to help build not Destroy. Be blessed