Broken Relationships
I know it’s been a minute since I’ve written anything but a lot has been going on and I want you guys to know that I never forget about you and I don’t want you to forget about me. I’m writing tonight because there is one subject that has been bothering me and I felt the need to write about it. My daily message that I wrote the other day sparked something in me and as always I felt the need to share.
Before you find yourself trying to fix a broken relationship, ask yourself this question. Is the relationship worth fixing? Does the other person feel the same way as you? Just because you want that person in your life. Doesn't mean they belong in your life. If someone removed themselves out of your life than let them be the one to fix it. If they’re not reaching out to you then you got your answer. It may have been for the best. Pray on it and God will replace that person with someone who values your friendship. Be blessed and love those who love you
This was the message that I sent out to my family and friends. I was feeling like I was still trying to fix a relationship that is no longer worth fixing. I’ve reached out to my friend on several occasions because I missed him and I wanted to hear his voice. However through this time he never reaches out to see how I was doing. Why was I the one trying to fix our relationship and he was the one who said that he no longer wanted any type of relationship with me. Funny, thing about him is that when I told him I missed him he told me that he missed me too. He also said he was glad to know that I still thought about our relationship. I looked at the word OUR and thought to myself “we don’t have a relationship so there’s nothing to really think about”. I’ll keep it real and I honestly just missed him. We all go through these times where we have accepted things for face value. He didn’t care enough about how I felt to think before he called what we built NOTHING. You can’t just say hurtful words and think its ok to feel that just because I said I missed you that I was thinking about our relationship. My point in telling you this story was that I sent him this same daily message and his response was: what are you thinking or who’s bothering you? No one had to be bothering me for me to feel this way. I just knew that I needed to realize that I have always been the one throughout my life trying to fix everything even when it wasn’t my fault. Not anymore I’m tired of trying to be the fixer and not getting the result that I feel I deserve. I honestly thought that I would be done with talking about him and it’s clear that he’s still very much in my heart. At this point all I can do is pray that God will show me what it is that I’m suppose to do at this point. I’ll say this about him as well and that it’s sad that he finally realized that even though he still had his ex in his heart that she didn’t have him in hers. Lesson learned
However on a great note I’ve been doing some life changing moves in my life. I finally got the call back from the job that would help me get to where I need to be in my life and I am suppose to start school next week. Now I say that I’m suppose to start school next week because right now I just don’t feel like I can give it my all and I may need to postpone it before I start to invest any monies again. My princess is a teenager and I’ve been rekindling old relationships that really matter to me. I’m focused on doing more things for myself and that includes taking a real vacation. I never been out of the states and would love to go to beautiful beach with clear water and good looking men…lol Hey I’m single and I’m always ready to mingle. Anyway I know that it’s not much that I’m writing about but I just wanted to let all my readers know that I will always write as long as god gives me the words to put onto paper. With that said don’t allow your talents to die because God doesn’t have a problem giving them to someone else that will use them.
Until next time…
Before you find yourself trying to fix a broken relationship, ask yourself this question. Is the relationship worth fixing? Does the other person feel the same way as you? Just because you want that person in your life. Doesn't mean they belong in your life. If someone removed themselves out of your life than let them be the one to fix it. If they’re not reaching out to you then you got your answer. It may have been for the best. Pray on it and God will replace that person with someone who values your friendship. Be blessed and love those who love you
This was the message that I sent out to my family and friends. I was feeling like I was still trying to fix a relationship that is no longer worth fixing. I’ve reached out to my friend on several occasions because I missed him and I wanted to hear his voice. However through this time he never reaches out to see how I was doing. Why was I the one trying to fix our relationship and he was the one who said that he no longer wanted any type of relationship with me. Funny, thing about him is that when I told him I missed him he told me that he missed me too. He also said he was glad to know that I still thought about our relationship. I looked at the word OUR and thought to myself “we don’t have a relationship so there’s nothing to really think about”. I’ll keep it real and I honestly just missed him. We all go through these times where we have accepted things for face value. He didn’t care enough about how I felt to think before he called what we built NOTHING. You can’t just say hurtful words and think its ok to feel that just because I said I missed you that I was thinking about our relationship. My point in telling you this story was that I sent him this same daily message and his response was: what are you thinking or who’s bothering you? No one had to be bothering me for me to feel this way. I just knew that I needed to realize that I have always been the one throughout my life trying to fix everything even when it wasn’t my fault. Not anymore I’m tired of trying to be the fixer and not getting the result that I feel I deserve. I honestly thought that I would be done with talking about him and it’s clear that he’s still very much in my heart. At this point all I can do is pray that God will show me what it is that I’m suppose to do at this point. I’ll say this about him as well and that it’s sad that he finally realized that even though he still had his ex in his heart that she didn’t have him in hers. Lesson learned
However on a great note I’ve been doing some life changing moves in my life. I finally got the call back from the job that would help me get to where I need to be in my life and I am suppose to start school next week. Now I say that I’m suppose to start school next week because right now I just don’t feel like I can give it my all and I may need to postpone it before I start to invest any monies again. My princess is a teenager and I’ve been rekindling old relationships that really matter to me. I’m focused on doing more things for myself and that includes taking a real vacation. I never been out of the states and would love to go to beautiful beach with clear water and good looking men…lol Hey I’m single and I’m always ready to mingle. Anyway I know that it’s not much that I’m writing about but I just wanted to let all my readers know that I will always write as long as god gives me the words to put onto paper. With that said don’t allow your talents to die because God doesn’t have a problem giving them to someone else that will use them.
Until next time…
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